This article in Harvard Business Review, the author shares some success in sharing HOW to think, not WHAT to think. Boom, in my brain, that is why I blog, to help people with Restorative Justice and Circles, and to provide insight in how we might advance ourselves, our services and our collective passion about Restorative Justice and Circles. How to think about it, here is an example:
The hot new social media trend is pinterest. Pinterest is an online pinboard. Whoever heard of that? Basically, a pinboard is a place to post pictures that are links to sites, and you can look at what has been pinned, someone elses board of pinned items. Make sure you have time when you go there, it is addicting.
My first visit to pinterest, I, of course, search the term Restorative Justice. Results, about restorative yoga, restorative dentistry and lots of photos with comments on how the photo “doesn’t do it justice”. After reading again and again, “doesn’t do it justice” or “does not do justice”, I put my meaning on the word justice, and began to think about criminal justice, restorative justice and why and how the word was being used in all these photo comments.
I came to this. In the context of beauty, when a photo “does not do it justice”, it means something about it wasn’t captured, that in real life, there was something much more. I think it has to do with capturing a spiritual essence, that a photo can not do and real life can. I think, Restorative Jusitce brings different “justice”. The kind of justice that includes a spiritual essence, that formal process can not do. Recently hearing “there are as many definitions of justice as their are victims”. I am in tune to the individuality of justice and the need to be individually aware of each persons experience and need for justice.
Crime is ugly, there is no way to say that it isn’t. People are hurt, people are punished, resources and capacity are diminished in the presence of crime. Humans are not acting on their own greater good when they commit crimes. Generally here, it was a crime when Rosa Parks didn’t get out of her seat, but that’s another blog post.
Use of the phrase, “doesn’t do it justice” on pinterest, really had me thinking about harvesting the justice (beauty and spiritual essence) in Restorative Justice. It was actually best said by a teen in Circle. She looked at the speaker, who had shared the pain of surviving his daughters death, caused by an intoxicated driver, and she told him she was sorry for his loss. She said it was terrible that it happened and she wished it hadn’t. She said it was cool that he was telling the story like this. I saw the expression on the storytellers face. It appeared he was acknowledged and comforted. I felt the beauty in that moment of connection between Circle members. I saw an element of Restorative Justice, as the tragic and fatal car crash created a lesson and touched lives. This storyteller was harvesting the justice (the beauty and spiritual essence) of what happened. So much so, that a teen referred to as cool. You do realize most teens don’t recognize people that are old enough to be their parents as cool? And that word “cool”, in that moment, it really did do justice.